Do you ever feel stretched too thin? Overwhelmed? Resentment creeping in?
This is often not because we have too much to do, it’s because we are not clear on what we want and where we are going so we say yes to everything and everyone and it’s exhausting!
We say yes when we truly want to say no.
Think of it this way…
Each “yes” steals a precious piece of your time and energy that you cannot replace. While on the other hand, every “no” is a “yes” to you, the impact you can make, and your legacy.
Generally, people are the byproduct of their circumstances and environments. And the reason for that is that people are not decided.
Today I want to introduce you to this principle: 100% is easier than 98%.
This principle is simple. Decide, then go all in.
Step #1: Gain Clarity + Decide.
If you’re still taking time to set up Plan “B” you haven’t made a choice yet. If you want to take over the island, you must burn the boats. Micheal Jordan famously said, “Once I made a decision, I never thought about it again.” Let that sink in for a minute. How much time and energy do you spend wavering, overthinking, and saying “yes” when you mean “no?”
Step #2: Follow the Clear Path
When you decide you have a clear outcome and path to get what you desire. You don’t require willpower or motivation as much as you do when you’re only 98% committed.
For example, if you are 100% committed to not drinking alcohol, when you get together with friends for dinner you don’t have to decide whether you are going to have a glass of wine with dinner or not, you’re committed.
You cut off any other option.
The meaning of the word “decide” comes from the Latin word, decidere, which is a combination of two words: de = ‘OFF’ + caedere = ‘CUT.’
Step #3: Build Your Self-Belief
Self-belief is different from self-confidence. Self-confidence is an outward projection, primarily based upon the perception of others. Self-belief, however, is internal. It is your internal knowing that you are enough, you are capable, you are worthy, you are loved, and you are valuable. Each time you follow through on your 100% commitment you build your internal self-belief, thus further increasing your motivation and resolve to continue no matter your external circumstances.
Today, I encourage you to decide, to let go of the back-and-forth thinking and go all in. The result will not only be more time, energy, and freedom but also a deep sense of self-belief and fulfillment in your life.
Let’s end with this quote from one of the most successful men in our current day’s history…
“The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say no to almost everything. “ – Warren Buffet
